Contributing to someone’s LifePost can be a great gift. Offering stories, photos and other material will help them to weave a tapestry of memories they’ll treasure for years.
Advice: as important as congratulations and condolences are, try to go beyond that – offer specific memories or descriptions, photos and other items that could only come from you.
If you try to contribute to someone’s LifePost, and the system won’t let you, that’s because the creator of that LifePost has made their setting Private or Semi-Public. Don’t worry. You can request that a note is sent to the Creator, who then has the option of granting you permission.